Ever feel normal

Ever feel normal? After trying to live the life for years things have changed and I cant help but mis that secirity. I feel odd and abnormal knowin that my communite wont react well if they found out my poor children would have a hard time and that the country people iv met have being kind to my face but a lot stil think of me as a "knacker'. Anyone else feel theyd luv to be normal? Id be easier.

i love my life rite now and purely because people opinions of me don't matter. I live alone and am independent and don't feel the need to answer too anyone. Normality is something i've givin up striving to achieve because who am i to envy someone else,s idea of normality or them to dictate what mine should be. Accepting what you've been delt is hard but it soon becomes easier and eventually normal.

Exactly what is *normal*?

adjective: usual. Too be without any special characteristics or circumstances.

never mind normality.
norms change over time anyway.
and as with norms changing, so does taboos and morés,,,
basic sociology,, we will be a normal group one day.

PaveePrince wrote:

adjective: usual. Too be without any special characteristics or circumstances.

Reading paveeprinces quote normal sounds very much like boring. Dont under value yourself or who you are. We all know self acceptance is hard but it really is better to love and be loved for who we truely are then through what we can never be. (God I sound deep this morning!)