Parenthood

Most gay ppl dont hav children an family is the most important part of being a pavee. Do you mis that? Want children? Plan too? Im too unsettld but parenthood is somethin id love to have the chance to be

i got broody even tho im gay the result is

i do have a daughter but never see her

im not sure about gay ppl havin childrens, big subject to me, i just dont know

Congrats on bein a daddy!

London I hope u kno your legal rights?
Id love to be a father. i wont be but i think the natral and social ned is still there

If I was in a loving, stable, long term relathionship then I would consider adoption.
London having anxiety about homosexuals raising children is a very common concern. As a gay parent yourself, would you mind me asking why you feel this way?

i will prob have to add to this reply but this is all i can write for now

I was sort of in a relationship with a woman. We had a child. Ive only seen me daughter twice, thats it. We had to come to an understanding as she was married. My daughter dont know im her dad. Me family and her family fall out, so we dont speak. somehow i always fell that the truth will out at sum point. when that happens there will be a lot of tears i guess. I was very very young when all this happened and it HAD to be hushed up. thats just how it was. altho it hurt me a lot, as i wanted to come clean about eveything, she did not. I dont consider meself to be a parent altho ive fathered a child. I dont have views on gay ppl adopting or having children. My own personal view is that i had the opportunity to live with the mother of me child and become a proper family. was one of the hardest things i ever had to do, in saying no. because i knew that i wud have to live the rest of me life as a lie, pretending to be str8. i chose not to do that, but it was far from easy beleive me. on the pther point princess, yeh a lot of ppl have anxious about gay ppl adopting etc. this is because a lot of ppl associate gay ppl with being a peadophile i think. totally sad point of view, very very sad actuall and i dont know where this myth started from i guess it was just a part of demonising gay ppl even more.

London it really say's a lot about a fella when he's prepared to take into consideration how his actions will affect himself and other's around him in future. Seem's you could have stayed with that girl and lived a lie for the rest of your life that would have made you and your family worse off in the long run ortake a step back to give ye both a chance to follow whats best for ye.

oh and on the whole "bein a daddy" subject, one day i hope to be but when i'm like 40 and all growed up!

Moniker, thanks m8

The Prince

thanks and i agree with u

PaveePrince

that really is very very sweet of u to say, thank you. Sounds like u got a story yerself??!!