Ever been asked outrite R U GAY

I have, if im feelin confident and can look after meself, ive said yes, i am

In other places, i been asked that and i have denied it, that felt bad, but it saved me from a hiding

I get where your coming from even though I've never being asked right out.

I guess this means:

A. Everyone knows and so its not a question.
B. No one knows and don't suspect it.
C. People suspect but no one has yet to have the balls to ask me.

Cant honestly say If I'd admit to it after being asked right out but chances are Id get the head bet off me for saying yes... so for now I'm still at the stage of denying everything as I don't know if I could put up with the hassle of it all.

After saying that I can be risky at times too. As I've being in a few gay bars in the city so not sure if I'm playing with fire until someone spots me or just trying to work myself up until I'm okay with the *possibility of people knowing. (I say possibility as I have no desires to come out fully, I mean why should I when the current losses by far out weigh the possible gains).

Time as they say will do the telling

Yes. I lide an felt crp about it aftr
But bettr then a beatin

Ya prince Iv heard a lot about that type of carry on. Either we'd give them the gay or interfer with them. A natural worry really when most dnt know much about gay issues but still wrong

i shud add that the only time i was asked r u gay and said yeh was when i knew they wud never see me again, didnt know me, and knew they wud not no any of me family. one step at a time huh. was rite liberatin in my own small way lol

....and the onlyt reason i was asked was cos i was gettin serious eye contact from the barman, and for one nite i didnt give s hit who saw me leering lol, we was both off our faces lol

baby steps are steps none the less London, go you for bein a rebel though .

So true!times changin so we might gt there someday :-)

but wot wud u say if somine asked ya R U Gay?

Most likely fuck off and the back of the hand into the mouth. terrible but i cant honestly think of any other way id genuine respond to that. I might be a cunt for using agression to ahndle my own fears but for now it keeps me safeer then just being out.

Ov taken a risk for adding a bit of my face pic. If its too much let me know but one day i hope to be able to show it all without fear

good 4 u m8 we all haves to be looking after ourselves survival in those situations

Its bezzare tho aint it. Most people can jsut say it and have a bit of hassel. We say it and the family is punished and chances are at some stage someones gonna want to kick the shite out of us. Unlike yourself London were not all tall strapping men lol

it is bizarre yeh. becuase we r travellers it means more to be gay like its a bigger thing if u r a traveller.

just because im a strappin man (lol) dont mean i aint vulnerable too, it only takes 3 guys against me and im in trouble arent i

Three guys against you... oh the images! hahaha

I guess I should take up some self defense or somethin

nah u dont need to be takin up any self defense, il sort it for ya, im a trained cage fighter, serious, ill sort any trouble for ya m8 lol no worries

Seriously??? A trained fighter... lol

I did boxing for a few years but enver had the flare, ended up in the gym so toned like fuck but never really took on the muscle

yeh i was in same fite club as lee lightning murray, london shootfighters. u get lean yeh like u r, but i got to keep the muscle m8

fukin hell thats awesom!

cheers bruv!!

I hope one day ebing who we are comes before who we are meant to be. travelelr or not

amen

Someday!

I have. I've lied.

Lie for keeping yourself safe? or just coz it aint anyones business?