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PostSubject: My BF doenst know im a travellers   Fri Sep 25, 2009 6:45 am

Ya I know how bad does that sound.

I already sent a few messages to the people behind this site and got soe good advice but i want to ehar from other people too. so ok this is how it is. I have being seeing him for 11 months and kept him well away from family and stuff. He lives about 50 miles from me so i usually see him at his place or in his town. Thing is he doesnt know im a traveller. I havent told him. I dont look like a pavee (if we have a look lol) i wanted to tell him at first it just never came up as its not really something ya say half way through a night.Im thinking should i tell him. Im really into him and im kinda on the wall about what to say or if i should even say it. As it shouldnt be a problem. I already told him i dont like a few of his friends that called some people nackers. They werent even travellers but its still a word that brings over stuff. I kinda feel like im lieing to him as i cant share him with my family as they would not at all understand. What does everyone think?
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PostSubject: Re: My BF doenst know im a travellers   Sun Sep 27, 2009 12:03 pm

Sent ya a Pm msg Sunds like uv ben datin him bt hes nt datin u! Sunds wrng not fr the satuation as it cn happin but wrng that ur makin ursef unhappe. At lest ya no what u wnt and hu u want. B u. Ur enuf!
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PostSubject: Re: My BF doenst know im a travellers   Mon Sep 28, 2009 5:46 am

Thanks to the people who sent me private messages and for the reply relly do need to wrk through this
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PostSubject: Re: My BF doenst know im a travellers   Mon Sep 28, 2009 3:16 pm

be proud of being a traveller and tell him, if he cant hack it, get rid as u will never be happy woth someone that disrepcts who u r or your history.
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PostSubject: Re: My BF doenst know im a travellers   Wed Sep 30, 2009 2:19 pm

L.T. so true! I think we all at some stage have probs with who we r and who we r meant to be but fek that man, be you, proud and most of all... Happy!
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PostSubject: Re: My BF doenst know im a travellers   Thu Oct 01, 2009 2:27 pm

Moniker ya wouldnt be askin if ya couldnt do it... give your relathionship a chance!
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PostSubject: Re: My BF doenst know im a travellers   Thu Oct 01, 2009 2:40 pm

Suibleen wrote:
L.T. so true! I think we all at some stage have probs with who we r and who we r meant to be but fek that man, be you, proud and most of all... Happy!

U givin good advice imho lol
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PostSubject: Re: My BF doenst know im a travellers   Tue Oct 06, 2009 1:28 pm

Thanks guys I have decided to tell him this weekend. Your help is appreciated. Il let you all know!
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PostSubject: Re: My BF doenst know im a travellers   Tue Oct 06, 2009 4:17 pm

yeh let us know so we can be of sum support for ya, woteva way it goes! Good Luk n Good Choice
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PostSubject: Re: My BF doenst know im a travellers   Mon Oct 12, 2009 1:55 pm

how did it go?
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PostSubject: Re: My BF doenst know im a travellers   Mon Oct 12, 2009 3:09 pm

It went ok well for what it was. hes taking time to clear his mind but told me were still together t had very good e issues with travellers as his not had very good e issues with travellers as his not had very good experi with them so i dont know where that puts us as im not a label even if i wanted to hide from my families past. somethin to work on... jsut hope we can. time tels!
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PostSubject: Re: My BF doenst know im a travellers   Mon Oct 12, 2009 3:32 pm

thats a result in my book, gud luk 2 ya both, nice one
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PostSubject: Re: My BF doenst know im a travellers   Mon Oct 12, 2009 5:27 pm

Well done. It takes a lot of trust in who you are and who you wish to be to take such steps. Heres hoping it will be one among many more that lead you to where you long to be. Fair play!
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PostSubject: Re: My BF doenst know im a travellers   Tue Oct 13, 2009 6:55 am

Well done mr i hope ur proud!
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PostSubject: Re: My BF doenst know im a travellers   Mon Oct 19, 2009 2:50 pm

and how is it now? been a couple of weeks, anything new? have u and he talked more about the traveller stuff?
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PostSubject: Re: My BF doenst know im a travellers   Mon Oct 19, 2009 3:07 pm

Its tough wer still 2gethr takin each day at a time
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PostSubject: Re: My BF doenst know im a travellers   Tue Oct 20, 2009 1:17 pm

thats good to hear m8, none of its easy, but u r both giving it a go, thats progress woteva nice one
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PostSubject: Re: My BF doenst know im a travellers   Tue Oct 20, 2009 2:15 pm

Thanks
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