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itsasecret
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PostSubject: Can I really come out?   Wed Sep 16, 2009 8:25 am

I know the site seid i could, but i dont think that would be good.

I know some travellers who are gay went out with a traveller for a few months and all but it didnt work as his da wanted him to marry
i dont really know any travellers who are out <but did hear about some) thouhg i kow a lot of travellers who arent or who people think are they are. With travellers keeping to themselves family and being in each others lives i dont think i could taske the pressure of all that.
That and id be worried that even if some people would be ok no worries about it some would really not be. Does anyone have to fight or put up with names and talk?

So do people think that i can come out and still be able to be myself and get on with people?

Thankyou
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moniker
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PostSubject: Re: Can I really come out?   Tue Sep 22, 2009 3:56 am

travellers have come a long way since they ahd smoke in their eyes. You can come out. I bet it's hard in itself but you can do it. i guess its down to how much you want to be out and how much you want to stay in. and which one you need to do to live life. the present is a gift. dont waste it
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PostSubject: Re: Can I really come out?   Fri Sep 25, 2009 6:00 am

of course you can. but do you have to?I dont ever want too and i think thats ok with me and my life., i might change my mind sometime but rite now its grand.kinda annoys me when epople kinda think u should come out as theres no real reason2 if your happy. though if being secret and not being able to be urself is soemthing that hurts you then ya have to think about it. things are changing but there still hard for some people. especially the older ones. but thats life. we can either live life or get ready dieing.kinda shite to ehar of him getting married. did he do it? that could be big trouble if people found out as ya cant really change who you were born to be. ya know?
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PostSubject: Re: Can I really come out?   Sat Oct 17, 2009 2:03 pm

i never heard of a totally out traveller that hasnt had to leave the family and lifestyle.
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Guiney
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PostSubject: Re: Can I really come out?   Sat Oct 17, 2009 3:39 pm

Someday L.T, someday!
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PostSubject: Re: Can I really come out?   Sat Oct 17, 2009 4:42 pm

u go first Guiney lol, let me know how it goes n ill be rite behind ya lol
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PostSubject: Re: Can I really come out?   Sun Oct 18, 2009 1:24 pm

I know a couple of out lesbians. Out by common knowledge and not there own voices.
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PostSubject: Re: Can I really come out?   Sun Oct 18, 2009 3:08 pm

princess, r they a couple? r they still living normal travellein life or did they separte themselves from it?
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Jmcdonagh
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PostSubject: Re: Can I really come out?   Mon Oct 19, 2009 2:11 pm

Together what cnt we do :-)
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Jmcdonagh
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PostSubject: Re: Can I really come out?   Fri Oct 23, 2009 1:35 pm

ment 2 ask do ya want to come out?
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