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michael conners



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PostSubject: bein outed   Tue Feb 16, 2010 11:36 am

how wuld u cope wth bing outd?

Do u thnk homphobic gay travlrs shuld be utted. I do. Hatrs suldnt b alwd to gt awy wit it

U?
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PostSubject: Re: bein outed   Tue Feb 16, 2010 12:01 pm

i dont thnk anyone should be outed to be honest,
for many reasons..the reason someone is homophobic is what should be looked at,homo phobia is a fear of homosexuals and homo sexual activities,,etc,,,no one knows what makes a person a homophobe,,maybe its a battle they have inside themselves,,people in this situation that are homo phobic and fighting their own feelings are somethimes a little mentaly unstable,,being outed could send them over the edge,,suicide even,,or a gay bashing rampage,,

i think its better to deal with homophobes with the best weapon we have,,perseverence and mostly,,,existence..

time is the great educater

only my oppinion though,...lol

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PostSubject: Re: bein outed   Tue Feb 16, 2010 12:08 pm

i think it takes a very sad person thats miserable with their own lives too out someone else, ya know the type and there all the same but are just not over their own insecureties i guess
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michael conners



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PostSubject: Re: bein outed   Tue Feb 16, 2010 12:22 pm

tme an patince mens litl if ur beng tormentd by a angry idyot. Truth sets us fre.

R we reli responcble 4 othr ppls problms? evn if thr unstable. Kepin tight lipd cn lead 2 alt mre pain. vilian can b a victm bt ther victms r rarly vilians. At lst a outin mks ppl awar an able to gt to a person. Far mre i tink then if thr bein homphobic

jst my opinion2
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PostSubject: Re: bein outed   Tue Feb 16, 2010 12:33 pm

lol,,no right or wrong when it comes to oppions lol,,

but,,outing someone is just making yourself to be just as bad as them,,but if your saying this person is tormenting you and is in fact gay himself,,then i think out him if it is what you want,,but dont be suprised if it blows back in your face and you come out looking a loar,,people that are in the closet and become homophobic tend to be good at hiding their true colours,,i should know,,i was in the closet long enuf,,

just be mindful of the outcome before you act ...

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michael conners



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PostSubject: Re: bein outed   Tue Feb 16, 2010 12:40 pm

ya tru. shuld do mre thnkin on it. gt gud prof 2. nt sur if i wnt 2b the1 to shar the info bt his a dog. tho ths isnt abt me jst in gereral as il fnd me own wayt.
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PostSubject: Re: bein outed   Tue Feb 16, 2010 12:45 pm

i think its safe to say so that each case should be looked at in its own situation,,like your situation is fairly annoying for you..
can i ask,,do you live near him,,do you have to see him and put up with him,,anyway of just avoiding him...?

dont let him get to you anyway man,,there is nothing worse than repressed anger,.,
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PostSubject: Re: bein outed   Tue Feb 16, 2010 12:59 pm

I wouldn't dirty my hands on something like this, as unless he is directly confrontational or beyond avoiding I don't think anyone really wants to be responsible for that amount of pain. Some people are deeply wounded and like to share that sense of anguish but you don't need to be a part of it.

Perhaps this is an opportunity for you to grow a bit more at ease with your sexuality or gather around a sense of security with others. Personally I'd take the legal root for harassment long before I'd out anyone. It's just bad karma (if you believe in that stuff LOL).

Sent you a PM mate if you want to chat about it off forum.
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PostSubject: Re: bein outed   Tue Feb 16, 2010 3:47 pm

Be the bigger man tell him to either to feck off or go to the guards about the carry on. if hes just a loud mouth leave him to it people like that are rarely overlookd.
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PostSubject: Re: bein outed   Wed Feb 17, 2010 11:10 am

as a gay traveller who came out in his teenage and had to work through a lot of other peoples problems id never out anyone. its crueler then they are and not only can it kill it can destroy families. i know as i was outd
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